Comments on: 5 Ways to Stop Being Envious of Others (With Examples)

By: Kenneth

Kenneth — Fri, 24 Mar 2023 03:58:49 +0000

First off all, thank you for sharing this article for us.

I am that competitive that I get upset when someone overtakes me in things. I’m so disappointed, down, and envious that I’m always pointing the finger at something or someone for why this happened!

I always want to be ahead of others and have all of their attention focused on me, giving me positive feedback.

I’ve been working on this attitude and these characteristics for a long time and still can’t get over them. 🙁

I’m hoping and praying that one day I’ll be able to overcome this!

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 04:49:14 +0000

In reply to RCW.

Hi RCW,

I’m sorry, that must really suck… In the end, though, the only think you can control is your own actions, not the actions of others. I hope you’re able to keep your head high and focus on yourself, instead of the pain that’s inflicted on you by others.

All the best,

Hugo

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 04:47:39 +0000

In reply to Tim. Thanks, Tim!

By: RCW

RCW — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 16:01:46 +0000

I am 60 years “old” and I am ALWAYS alone. I married for the 2nd time 12 years ago. He left me and moved out without telling me….11 years ago. Yes, we are still legally married but I haven’t heard from him in months.
I see all of my high school friends on Facebook have fantastic relationships, marriages and friendships, yet I rarely get invited. I’ve tried to make friends locally but they too stop inviting me.
I am ALWAYS alone. I feel envy just about every time I see photos of all the happy faces & fun times they’re all having and it’s really starting to get to me. I’m happy for them, I tell them so, but it hurts inside.

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Thu, 20 Oct 2022 04:38:05 +0000

In reply to Alex Danahy.

Hi Ales,

Thanks for sharing this! You’ve been given a tough set of cards… I hope you’ll find ways to be happier with what you have, as opposed to what others are showing off on their social media feeds… Remember, comparison is the thief of joy, and social media (or Youtube) is a terrible place to be if you’re prone to feelings of envy!

All the best!

By: Tim

Tim — Fri, 07 Oct 2022 01:47:00 +0000

Super relatable. Great post. Thanks for the pointers.

By: Alex Danahy

Alex Danahy — Thu, 06 Oct 2022 22:24:52 +0000

I became a caregiver for my mom at 18 and all my money and recourses go to her. I love my mom but feel like I have no life experience at 30.
I know I shouldn’t go on YouTube, but I do and see all these 20–22-year old’s traveling or being entrepreneurs and I’m like when I was 20, I was just getting my 1st part time job. Also being an introvert it’s very hard for me to talk to people without feeling stupid. I don’t want to be negative. As a man we want people to look up to us and celebrate us. It’s just so hard to not be envious since it’s so ingrained in some people’s personality.

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Sun, 11 Sep 2022 05:08:31 +0000

In reply to Lyra. Thanks for sharing, Lyra! I hope this article has helped you deal with these thoughts of envy.

By: Lyra

Lyra — Wed, 07 Sep 2022 22:41:15 +0000

I don’t know why but I get jealous and envious of my female friends when they receive more attention than I do. I know I shouldn’t feel this way but I can’t help it and I get annoyed with myself for not just being happy and supportive for them. And don’t get me wrong it isn’t a constant thing because there are times when I am genuinely happy for them, but every once in awhile my green lil horns pop up.

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Sun, 10 Jul 2022 16:07:52 +0000

In reply to Mary. It's important to know that you each possess qualities that the other doesn't have. While it may feel unfair, it's important to not let this get your mood down! You need to focus on yourself.