Comments on: 7 Strategies to Effectively Stop Self-Pity (With Examples)

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Sun, 12 Mar 2023 12:44:07 +0000

In reply to Justine. Thanks, Justine! I'm glad to hear you found our work to be valuable!

By: Justine

Justine — Sat, 11 Mar 2023 15:17:18 +0000

This article has been a blessing to me on my journey to healing and wholeness. I will refer to this article periodically to remind me in those different moments, that there is another way to deal with difficult situations. Thank you for sharing these concepts. I pray for strength to apply them when needed and also help others who struggle with life’s challenges. Thanks again.

By: Justine

Justine — Sat, 11 Mar 2023 15:06:56 +0000

This article has been a blessing to me in healing from past hurts and disappointments and even failures. I realize there is another way to look at adversity and how to let it go. I just need to be consistent and go to the solution quickly rather than stew or situations too long and cause undo stress. I will have to refer to the article periodically just to keep myself reminded of what you have shared. Thank you!!!

By: Cynde F

Cynde F — Thu, 08 Dec 2022 04:36:15 +0000

Thank you I really needed this read. It hits at the core of understanding Cynde. I’m so self absorbed in Cynde that I will not surrender and let go. I’ve done some writing most of all I get out of myself and help someone. I’m in charge so it’s going to be a great travel.

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Wed, 09 Nov 2022 07:34:15 +0000

In reply to Rachel Carby. Wow, thanks for sharing your personal experience, Rachel. I really appreciate that, as other readers will get to see that the advice may be simple, but it's actually very hard to follow it every single day... I hope you will eventually overcome your challenges and find happiness!

By: Rachel Carby

Rachel Carby — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 18:54:58 +0000

Hi.
I just read this article and I totally agree factually, yes here it comes but it’s really hard. I have EUPD/ BPD and I’m going through the menopause so the symptoms I have are now so heighten I actually feel powerless. I’m nearly 10 years sober and drug free so like most people who have been in the dreaded cycle of addiction it almost feels normal to be unhappy. Even after 10 years substance free. I had a year long residential DBT treatment but I actually know the skills everything you have adviced but I just can’t seem to apply them in times of distress plus I end up pushing people away with my constant depression, anxiety and serious lack of understanding of other people’s feelings. I just get soo caught up in myself and how to make things better I make things worse. I know it sounds very confusing.
So I know I have to just stop check and proceed ,pro’s and con’s of what I and going to do or say and am I hurting others and myself. But it’s hard work.

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Sun, 28 Aug 2022 16:46:07 +0000

In reply to Walter Washington.

That’s so great to hear, thanks for sharing, Walter! I’m happy you found value in our work!

All the best,

Hugo

By: Walter Washington

Walter Washington — Sat, 27 Aug 2022 22:41:33 +0000

Great information. I’m 33 yrs.sober through working the AA program. I’ve been having a pity party for about the last couple of weeks. I can’t seem to get out of this funk. Reading your article has really helped. I going to pass it on. Attitude of Gratitude.

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Fri, 22 Jul 2022 15:56:29 +0000

In reply to Cali Carol. That's amazing, thanks for sharing your comment, Cali!

By: Cali Carol

Cali Carol — Tue, 19 Jul 2022 22:10:38 +0000

After finally overcoming a battle with suicidal depression I am now looking at the next step to mental wholeness which for me is facing and over coming my tendency towards self-pity. Thank you for your article. It helps.