Comments on: What The F*ck Is Wrong With Me? (No BS Advice & Examples)

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Mon, 24 Jul 2023 18:38:11 +0000

In reply to Willy. Hi Willy, that's rough... I can't offer any specific advice here for you. To me, this sounds like a good thing to talk about with a professional. Someone who can help you untangle this uncertainty without any emotional bias. For what it's worth, we've written lots of articles on inner happiness. Despite your circumstances and the people around you, it never hurts to focus on yourself and prioritize your own happiness. All the best, Hugo

By: Willy

Willy — Sun, 16 Jul 2023 08:23:39 +0000

Years ago realized I had all these issues I had to work on. It was freeing and being able to look at myself and actually know that these problems I had were something I could and would work on to be a better person. It was a great thing! When I was accepting these issues I started noticing everyone around me acting really different noticeably different and I noticed people repeating personal things about my life that only one person could know besides me. Then it’s been a battle of what the he’ll is happening since then. The person I trusted and just my everything was doing shut behind my back and now I don’t know who I can trust I literally suspect everyone around me messing with me I’m in a bad spot I don’t want to be crazy and I don’t want to not trust and I really miss my love and what if it’s because of something I did that she is messing with me even more scarier what if she isn’t doing nothing or anyone doing anything and it’s all just in my head! Please please help

By: Karen

Karen — Thu, 15 Jun 2023 23:58:42 +0000

In reply to Hugo Huijer. Don't know if the typo in your reply was an accident or not, but it did get me a chuckle.

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Sat, 30 Apr 2022 22:42:33 +0000

In reply to Fred. Hi Fred, thank you for sharing this. I really appreciate it! I'm happy to read your positive attitude, and I'm sure you will crush any challenge that comes your way!

By: Fred

Fred — Tue, 26 Apr 2022 03:04:27 +0000

Hi Hugo,
Very articulate article am very on the pulse for what people (like myself) need to hear in these darker times. I did google that dreaded phrase and I’m lucky I stumbled on this article. I’ve been out of work with mental health issues and am trying to go back in, my first ‘proper job’ after a small stint at a shop let me go after a trial period. Pretty devastating considering returning to work has been the major goal for a few years. The thing that really resonated with me, and the thing I’ve learned from this experience is that a knock doesn’t mean you’re ‘down and out’. Googling that was being hard on myself. I’ve got 3 interviews coming up for similar roles, I’m in a play at a professional theatre and (even if I can’t see it) ‘I’m doing better than I think’

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Sun, 30 Jan 2022 01:11:19 +0000

In reply to Snehal.

Hi Snehal,

I’m sorry to hear this but happy that this article has helped you, even if just a little! We’ve written about how to focus on yourself more in this article: https://www.trackinghappiness.com/how-to-focus-on-yourself-and-not-others/ It might be of help to you?

All the best, and I sincerely hope you’ll find happiness (and privacy) soon!

Hugo

By: Snehal

Snehal — Sat, 29 Jan 2022 03:14:49 +0000

Yes. I googled the exact same thing you mentioned and this was the first thing I found. And I’m glad I did. I took some time and also did that first step you asked to do. After a series of questions and answers, I think I got the answer I was looking for. I constantly feel like it’s so tough to be me. To be myself. There’s this stupid expectations of me that I don’t really expect to prove. But then, I am not able to do the things I want to. Even if it’s just sitting silently for a few minutes with my thoughts and talking to myself every day. I have my parents barging in every two minutes to check what I’m doing. And the fact that they do this even if I’m trying to do some meditation and that they snap at me if I don’t answer their constant bugging is so frustrating. I just wish I had some more privacy. I thought something was wrong with me that I felt so shitty, but looks like it’s the lack of privacy to be and do the things I want to. Even if it’s as simple and important as meditation and being with myself. They want me to keep studying and Just that. Anything else is a waste of time. And I’m 20. I deserve some privacy atleast now. Studying is not life. I’ve been staying in this not-dead-but-not-alive realm for a long time now. And I just hope it changes. Do you have any tips on how to deal and go ahead with life and yourself when a little privacy is the last thing you have access to. Please!

By: Hugo Huijer

Hugo Huijer — Tue, 18 Jan 2022 21:01:45 +0000

In reply to Jayne. Thanks for sharing Jayne! I'm really sorry to hear how you feel!

By: Jayne

Jayne — Sat, 15 Jan 2022 13:46:47 +0000

Hi, it really helped reading that right now. I have been broken since my teens and am 40 this year. I have worked hard to fight the depression but it always creeps back, I think it's my nature and I'm sensitive to my hormones. Things are just impossible right now, I am so angry and keep snapping at my kids. What really upsests me is I've learned so much over the years and can fully see what a toxic parent I'm being but can't pull it back. I am messing up my kids lives because I'm such a mess. After 30 years of this dance it does feel at times it will never leave me and it's just who I am

By: Nicki

Nicki — Tue, 03 Aug 2021 14:39:43 +0000

In reply to Little foot. I feel the same way.